Don’t know what to talk to a girl about? This article will definitely help you! I will tell you about what you can talk to a girl about, and what you can’t talk about and how to avoid pauses in communication.
Many guys are too boring when conversing with a girl because they lacks what to say. Below are the major topics to discuss with a girl.
Free time is a great topic of conversation. Nobody likes to go to school or work, everyone likes to relax, therefore they also like to talk, most of all they like about rest. Such a topic is suitable both for simple communication, and in order to remove an awkward pause in a conversation. Ask her what she does in her free time or how she vacationed last summer, what she did while she was on vacation, which countries or cities she went to. Anything! The topic of free time is very broad, which can be extended over several dates. It so happens that a girl answers that she is not resting, has not gone anywhere, and. etc. It’s okay! Tell her about yourself. Tell us something interesting from your life. Perhaps you have traveled to some interesting city or country, perhaps you have some unusual hobby. Don’t be silent about it. So you have a topic for conversation, but she will be interested. It will be better than keeping silent for the whole date, or thinking about what to talk about.
Work or study
Not the best topic for conversation, but it’s a good way to keep your conversation going. If, when dating a girl, you have an awkward pause, and other topics of conversation do not come to mind – feel free to ask how she is doing at work or school. You can also tell her some stories from your work or study. If possible, do not delay with this topic and try to switch to another. Don’t forget that the transition from one topic to another should be smooth.
If your girlfriend is into sports, this is a great topic of conversation. At the same time, you may not understand sports at all. “How so?” – you ask. That’s how. Ask about her favorite sport, and if she loves, for example, football, basketball or hockey or any other sport, tell the girl that this is also interesting to you, and you would like to know more about it. If a girl is truly passionate about this, her story will be long and interesting. And the main thing for you is not just to sit with an understanding face on your face, but to try in every possible way to maintain the conversation, ask her questions. If you do everything right, the girl will definitely like the date. So who doesn’t like talking about themselves and their hobbies?
Family is generally one of the best topics for conversation, since they don’t talk about it to just anyone and this topic brings them very close. Tell the girl about your family, your relatives and friends, then maybe she will tell you about hers. If, after your fascinating story about her relatives, in response she did not want to talk about hers, do not be upset and do not press on her. Each person trusts other people differently. Someone after the second date is ready to tell you all their secrets, but for someone a year of communication is not such a long time, for such revelations.
Relationships are another good topic of conversation. By talking about this topic, you will have a lot of opportunities to show the girl that you are interested in her, in addition, you can learn about what kind of guys she likes and, possibly, some moments from her personal life. Do not forget to tell about yours, but I’ll say right away you don’t need to tell the girl how popular you are among them (girls) and you certainly shouldn’t brag about your large number of exes. Also, many guys, praising the girl, mention exes, throwing mud at them. In no case should you do this. The girl will think that when you break up, you will just as badly tell everyone about her. Therefore, I advise you to either not mention the exes at all, or mention, but not speak badly about them.
If there is nothing to talk about on a date or there is an awkward pause, you can talk about animals. Ask a girl about her pets or who she would like to have, you can also tell her about your favorite animals. Tell us about how you take care of them, girls love it, and you will also seem cute to her. The Pets theme is the perfect way to show your girlfriend how caring you are – use it.
Pauses in communication
The first thing I would like to tell you about is pauses in communication. How would you feel when after a long conversation you had a pause in your conversation? I don’t think it’s very comfortable. However, pauses in conversation are normal. It is not possible to speak forever without stopping. Pauses in communication can be avoided, for this it is enough to have a couple of topics in stock or be able to quickly come up with a topic for conversation. Since it is quite difficult to quickly figure out in such a situation, I recommend keeping a couple of topics for conversation in stock. It’s important to remember that if you have 5 themes in stock, you don’t need to just use them. Do not talk about them, but take care of the moment when you have nothing to talk about.
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